A look back..
Five years ago today... Our beautiful baby girl was born. It was 11/11 in room 11. A'Reian was born at 3:54 pm. The cord was wrapped tightly around her neck several times. She wasn't crying or moving- we were scared. To. Death. The nurses whisked her away and started her Apgar test. I over heard her telling my husband and sister the score was slightly low, but not to worry, it's typical. "Typical!? For what?" I thought to myself, assuming she was talking about the cord around her neck. I had a million thoughts running through my mind, but somehow managed to still listen to the conversation going on across the room. I heard my husband ask her what she meant by typical. She didn't slow her pace, didn't even make eye contact and said, "she's Down's, you didn't know?" It was silent for a minute. Everything was in slow motion. What is this lady talking about?? She just gave us life changing news like she was giving the diagnosis of a common cold. We were confused. She could see this, so she continued, "Trust me. I have been doing this for so many years I can tell right away." My doctor was furious, along with one of the other sweet nurses who quickly came over to comfort me. I looked down through tears at this tiny little body. I was so afraid of the unknown. Afraid of how many complications that could be in this tiny person. Never once did I ask "why me?" I knew the answer to that. God chose us for a reason.


Yes! One test down...several more to go

A'Reian with Aunt Darci

6weeks

8months

1 year
2 years
With the exception of a couple minor digestive issues and three small heart defects- She was perfectly healthy. We were told to make an appointment around the age of 5 to determine whether or not she would need surgery to close the hole in her heart. Over the summer, that time came.. she went in May for her check up and heart x-ray's. The results were inconclusive. What her cardiologist saw and what he heard were two different things. On the x-ray, the hole was huge from every angle and would definitely need repair. To listen to it was completely different, he could barely hear a murmur at all. On July 19, 2010, A'Reian went back in for her echo. All of those worries of the unknown came back to me that day as we waited in the room for the results. Finally the doctor came in and said, "It was really nice meeting you all, but you don't ever have to see me again!" Whew, I had tears of relief. He said he wasn't quite sure how, but the hole that had been there for 4 1/2 years had suddenly closed up within the past two months. WHAT?? A. Blessing.

3 years
4 years (signature pose)
And here she is today
Happy Birthday RayRay! We are So proud of you!
What She's Doing Now.....
A'Reian can say and sign all twenty six letters in the alphabet in order. She also recognizes them out of order on flash cards. A'Reian can count to 14. Starting this school year she is able to come home and tell us at least three things that happened at school.. what she ate..who she played with..etc. She is able to put her brother in time out. She'll give him a choice too, "Anthony, either sit on the couch or go to your bed...NOW!!" (You don't even want to see the look on her face when she is giving orders-I'd listen, she's Vicious with it!) I love how my little Ant respects her, knowing he can speak better than she can, he will still do everything she says. So adorable.
*Remember fam.. birthday is being celebrated Friday when KJ is off.. those pictures will be posted later! :)